I was wondering of when’s the best time to approach my Army friend (Richard Fancy). I don’t want to be intrusive and seem like I’m getting in the way of his new relationship. Would it be best to wait for another 2-3 months as this relationship runs its course?

Hi Evelin!
First and foremost, I suggest you get checked out by a health practitioner. I think feeling super tired can be normal at your age, which would definitely suck away your enthusiasm, but it would be good to check and make sure you’re healthy just in case. 🙂

When I feel into this, I sense that your body is communicating something…[Read more]

Thank you, Melinda.

I am going to do my best to start with myself. I am trying to start with some meditation. I do so much want to start the course, but he wouldn’t understand that now. It’s too much to hide from him and I hate hiding things from him. I’ll do my best to self-learn and pick things up from wherever I can for now. I will certainly…[Read more]

I’m taking an Advanced Mediumship course with Lisa Williams. Thank you for allowing me to practice.
Mediumship is okay, but psychic hits are much richer in guidance. They come from a different frequency/vibration.

Love, Melinda

Namaste @drowning2:

By parameters…it is meant that you set the standards of his behavior by allowing it. Sometimes people are victims of their own. We get in a cycle of victim-abuser. It’s a wheel that keeps spinning unless we choose to stop it.
It is not my place to say therapy is needed. I have seen times when it helps, and times when it…[Read more]

I just realised this. He has been suffering an ache on his left neck/shoulder area which hasn’t healed properly for months. We thought it was a stiff neck. Since yesterday, he has been having a pain on his right neck that goes down to his shoulder blade. He couldn’t sleep last night. Now he has taken painkillers, but they aren’t working. He can’t…[Read more]

Thank you, Melinda. Does that mean that if I send love to the one I hurt in the past, he would be able to feel that love now, in the present? Would it help with his hurt?

Dear Melinda, I can’t begin to tell you how much I appreciate your reply. You have things spot on. I love him very much and I am willing to wait. I try not to dwell on the negative moments with him, or my past, despite him wanting to revisit it often. Control is a keyword. I know he truly loves me, I just fear that he loves controlling me. I have…[Read more]

Namaste: The easy answer is yes! But it the highly enlightened who have these abilities. Past, present, and future are one timeline. There is no separation. It gets complicated after that.
What you CAN do is send love to the past. Find a quiet place, let go of all expectations. Touch your heart, take a deep breath…send love to the past…[Read more]

Namaste @drowning2,
I connect with your anxious heart. I see a man towering over you and shouting at you. You are scared and intimidated. This has been for a long time. You are exhausted from this, yet I see your heart is connected to his.
His behavior is his. It is his choice to be gentle or aggressive. Nothing you did in the past gives anyone…[Read more]

Hi, I just wanted to say that I hope things go well for you. My situation is not identical to yours but some of the things you said really resonate with me and feel similar. I hurt my man at the beginning of our relationship 7 years ago. Since then I have changed very much into a more decent person and learned to truly love him. But I have made…[Read more]