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My former life partner of 20 years slowly has become more and more of a lone wolf. My teenage son is becoming more this way each day. They both enjoy time alone, however, don’t really seem happy in life. I know it is hard to be a partner to someone who’s only social, emotional outlet is you. The pressure is intense. I also know it from coming out of a period of social isolation myself, that opening up to others can be really difficult. It doesn’t work for me if the motivation is solely that I want friendships. It has to begin with a genuine interest in others, and a sincere effort to find what you may do for them as well.
Inside you are gifts, beautiful gifts. There are people who would love to see what is beautiful inside you. And they also need you to see what is amazing inside of them. There are your friends.

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Hello Elizabeth,
Would you mind sharing a bit of how the lessons have affected the lives of yourself or others you’ve known? So much is new to me. I’m really curious and want to understand what is perhaps going on or not inside of me.

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Hello Sabrina. I’m new as well. Nice to meet you.

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Wow! Tina, it sounds as though your gift has been a challenging one to manage! And management it seems to demand, as blocking things is physically jamming up something in your physiology.I know personally very little about the insights you’ve had, however, as a visual artist, I do understand blocked creative energy. When the very thing that allows life force to flow powerfully through me can become sooo destructive if not given room to move. When no doors are open to my heart, when the surges get blocked in my gut, my body bloats…skin holds water so much my belly appears to be 6-7 with child, my fingers like little sausages, and my nose bright red. More disconcerting however, are the emotional experiences of holding in this energy that is screaming to come out. And the twitching. This probably sounds crazy. Perhaps doesn’t relate to you. But it seems that in little ways, perhaps you may create spaces and openings for what is knocking at your door. Community must be important, so you don’t feel afraid of there being too much or perhaps it is helpful in finding it at all. Best of luck!

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Hello Anha!

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Hi Becky. Nice to “meet you”. Are you still coming to this site? I just joined and am feeling my way through it. Right now, it seems fairly quiet, but perhaps I’ve not found the right places?
Cheers

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Hello again…just realized after posting a text to you, that the second part was actually more appropriate as a “hello” to entire group. But I really do think it’s pretty cool how much you listen in your life. As someone who talks perhaps too much, I appreciate the quality of a solid ear.

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Hi Erick. I love that you are both a musician and involved in tech support….both activities requiring very careful listening!

I’m here rather unexpectedly after a long conversation with my mother who has always been intuitive, particularly when it comes to animals. I’ve often felt things not explainable, but those sensibilities seem to have gone dormant for some years. What I’m noticing however, is as I am leaving my marriage of almost 20 years, my senses are opening just a bit. At least through my dreams. Each time my husband cheated on me, I had a dream about it. Was it subconscious pattern recognition? Not certain, but I was right 100% of the time.

I’d rather focus attention on more positive insights however, and am curious to see what occurs.

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I agree to terms.

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