I have been going through a very difficult situation in my relationship. It has really affected me to my core not only because of the possibility I could lose th man i have loved 23 years but even more is this deep feeling that there is something more to the situation.I have focused on this relationship for a long time. I think stepping back for a while might help or will it hurt things? I believe that we all have a purpose… That there is something extraordinary about each of us our purpose… Im at a point where I need to find out what mine is … What is my purpose? What should I do to get the most out of my life?