The wisdom that you have is wanting to burst out and assist in your life’s journey. This relationship is only a stop along your long life. He is a stepping stone to what awaits you.
Nothing he says is true. The hurtful words he said are not who you are. Release them. When you hear them in your mind, change the thought to a positive one, even if you just say “LOVE”. This will shift the painful memory.
Much love to you, Melinda