[RonJCol]

I can understand the emotional agony. If you are back with you, I would assume you still love her, but sounds like you have not fully forgiven her yet. That would explain the insecurity. Sitting her down and communicating your feelings would probably be a good method. This will let her know your position and also let her make some choices “if” this other guy is still around. Trust can be gained through reassurance, but as you progress… try not to treat her differently or assume she’s always cheating. In other words, just love her the best you can.

Personal thought, if she had an affair and you two separated.. that other guy was still probably around. If he was that special, she wouldn’t be with you right now.

[RonJCol]

Take some time and figure out what it is you want then go for it. Don’t procrastinate, take action and make some changes. You may feel lost, but there is a place where we all belong. Think about your interest, goals, or what makes you happy. Ask yourself what is it you want to do, where do you want to go, and what it is you want… Expand your train of thought, sum it up and pin point your location. Best of luck

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