Hi Kania. This is my very first post on this site, but I felt like I should respond to your topic specifically. I have had 4 miscarriages myself. I am so sorry that you’re going through this. In my personal opinion I feel that the moment I stopped stressing, and worrying that it might not happen, and when we “stopped trying” is the moment that it happened. I know this is different for everyone, and I know it’s hard to be patient when it’s something you want more than anything. Try bubble baths to relax, your favorite music, maybe some tea. I hope this helps you, and I hope you get everything you want.