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I am finally feeling like this is something I can & should do for myself as opposed to doing it only for someone else. That is important as well!
Thanks for taking the time to respond!
We’ve talked on occasion but are in a delicate situation to where even if he does feel like I do (which I was really hoping for!) I think we are both afraid of doing anything about it. We don’t work together but are in a similar scenario to where he is trying to be professional and I am trying to respect his position. Tough to say! I am hoping he takes the lead & gives me a clue to whether I can really open up to him in that way!
There is no easy way out of that at all. I went through it myself. To a degree, I think it is always kind of there because it is a situation that just isn’t “right” therefore (at least for me) I can never feel 100%. Does that make sense? It is now several yrs later and it never fully goes away but it does get better. I tell myself when the kids are grown I will finally be able to breathe and have somewhat of a normal life, not because of them of course, but because of the ex. That is not advice at all! But for me, it is the only way I can see to survive.
I feel for you. I deal with that issue myself. I am not as motivated as I should be. I think that’s important. You have to be properly motivated or it will never come about.
