I apologize, my intention was not to make you look wrong.  I do not know for a fact that he is living with this other woman.  All I know is that he told me he was going to stay with his sister for a few weeks and he is not staying with her.  He is texting this other woman almost constantly, and his FB profile says he is “in a relationship” since September, although he was with me physically until New Years Eve when he moved out.  When I confronted him about her, he said the are only good friends.  Who are you considering a stranger, her or me? I do want and appreciate any help I can get.  My year has not started off too well,  having him leave, I totaled my only vehicle on Wednesday, and he refused to come down to help, when he knows we have always leaned on each other for the past 19 years.