Have been strongly thinking about Tom, my first love of 49 years ago. We had a very strong connection and in 1999 he came and saw me after 30 years. At that time he rescued me from abuse and bondage from my sociopath stepfather in 1999. The timing wasn’t right for us. I lived on the East Coast and he on the West Coast. I wasn’t sure if he was married at the time. He never told me and I was in emotional devastation. Afterwards I waited for him but he called too late 4 years later and I had become engaged to my wonderful husband. My memoir is in ebook. I attempted to speak with him recently. Do you see any future for us?