Our habits do have an impact on when most of us die so eat well, don’t smoke or abuse drugs and alcohol and wear a seat belt. All of us will have good stuff and bad stuff in our lives too. I know this is not what you want to hear but it is honest.

1)forgive yourself. You know what you did wrong and how it hurt you and others. 2) tell him “I won’t ask for your forgiveness because I know I need to earn both your trust and forgiveness 3) be straight up with your loved one, do right by them and learn from your experience

I see thank you Fiona! I appreciate it I have been trying to shift my mindset as much as I can it is a process as I am sure you know.

It is 2 weeks she has been gone. Do you mean total or from now?

Thank you! My daughter is looking again tonight for her. The lady that called was very nice and a cat lover so she said she would watch for her. I really need this to be over and I am trying hard to communicate with her, find her and lead her home.

I see what you’re saying and agree. I’m going to keep my feelings to myself for now.

Thank you!!!

You’re so right about the fact that if it’s meant to be, there’s nothing at stake by not telling him. Thank you. You’ve really given me clarity. I am going to wait to say anything and let him go on this trip with a clear head.

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I understand. I will heed your and Patricia’s advice and not take any action right now; meanwhile, I’ll work on self-improvement.

Thank you both so much for your advice.

Are we looking in the right place?

My best advice is to take your hands off the situation and focus on working on self-improvement. Not that I am saying anything is wrong with you but we can all benefit from learning and growing. I have found Izabeyah to be a gifted psychic so I listen to her!