He could. I’m getting something about 6-8 months. Sally feels connected to his decision. But, if he shows up, is it really best for you to jump right in? At least make sure there are serious conditions he needs to meet. Don’t settle for what he decides to offer. As far as your misery, this is optional. No matter what is happening, you can get control over how you are reacting to it. I would check out the Life Mastery Program offering on this site. I’m getting now is the time to focus on taking care of yourself, whatever the outcome of the relationship. Also, this should help: https://www.lifeleap.org/blog/bring-back-my-ex/