I keep seeing a small business owner. Is that what he does? I get a psychic sense that he does care about you, but his goal is not a close, long term relationship. It’s nothing about you, it’s his own stuff. He has a resistance about being in a relationship, sees it as limiting, confining, stuffy, imprisoning. The future isn’t set, but I don’t think there is a lot you can do to change his mind. Might be better to find someone who doesn’t have this same resistance.