hi 6 years ago my wife left me for reasons I don,t fully understand, since then she has made my life hell. she kicks up hell when ever I have a friend around. she stirs up so much crap that all of my friends now want nothing to do with me. she refuses to allow me to live my own life yet she left me. I,m so sick of being alone yet I daren,t find anyone for fear of her constant stirring and muck raking. what can I do. nothing I,ve done makes any difference. even legal action won,t stop her. why cant, I be allowed to be happy?