Annette, welcome to the forums!
Actually our future is not set in stone. A lot depends on the paths that we choose to take. If you can imagine the road of life as a highway, there are side roads and detours. Also time in the spirit world is not the same as world time as we know it. So it really isn’t possible to predict when something will actually happen. What type of work interests you? You have potential for greater success doing something that you have a commitment for.
As for a potential suitor, i sense that he will come to you. You don’t need to be looking, just be aware. What is meant to happen will come easily. When something is forced it never turns out as well.
So for now, just keep doing what you are doing and be happy–
best wishes,