Kellie,
welcome to the forums!
Actually, our future is not set in stone. There are different avenues available to each of us and a lot depends on the path you choose to take. With any type of corrective surgery it is important to obtain a second or even third opinion before proceeding. As for meeting someone, it is best to just let things happen naturally. Sometimes by trying too hard to accomplish something it can cause it not to happen. What is meant to happen will come more easily.
Best wishes,