Astrology and birthdays do not matter, especially if you have a block. I recommend meditation or some kind of training to remove this block. Please don’t go to a scam gypsy psychic who tells you you have a curse. It’s horse hockey. Look up some meditation type programs in your area (yoga, Tai Chi, a Buddhist center with open classes, etc). Check them out and sign up for the one with the instructor you feel most comfortable with and stick with it. Some fires have to be fought from the inside out! A simple psychic reading from any psychic will not help deep seated patterns.