can you please tell me why he admires her.i have always been there through the good and bad and i have always treated him well and brought him first.i have always been there when he has gave me no reason to be there.do you see what shes like and if he admires her would there be any point in me staying if he often thinks of her like you said.how can you continue a realationship if one party is thinking of someone else then they arnt giving you a 100 percent.i really appreciate your reply please can you help me.i can try to improve our relationship but if i do would that stop him thinking of her please help kind regards debbie xx