Ex under a lot of pressure with work and college. Started taking out stress on me for last few months of 2 year relationship. It upset me a lot so i broke it off but still in love. Few months later he came back to me apologising and told me how much he loved me, got close for a few weeks. Then there was death in family and then said he didnt have time for relationship. A lot of fighting since. Will we sort it out?
You should not allow him to make you the victim of his frustrations. Being in a relationship means helping each other through the good times as well as the hard times. This is what you are trying to do for him. This is something that needs to be discussed. There is a chance that he will want to come back to you, just as he did before. That is when the expectations of this relationship should be defined. He can’t just come and go as he pleases! You deserve to be appreciated!