I agree with FionaM. As I focused on the question, I heard the Pasty Cline song, “Three Cigarettes In an Ashtray”. There is probably one too many people in this scene. As I connect with your spirit guides, I get a sense that you already know the answer to your question. Having said this, I would encourage you to review the reasons why you want to continue your friendship. What does it serve? What makes you want to seek it? Your partner has set a boundary for you. Are you willing to accept his boundary? Sometimes, it is best to set boundaries with some friends, and to keep those friends at a distance that is perhaps nonthreatening to our current partner. Relationships are built on trust. This “friend” adds to your partner’s insecurities.
Ultimately, it is what you want. I know you will make the right choice for yourself.
Many blessings to you.
Melinda