Athena,
Although the long distance relationship had been working for several months, how much do you really know about this guy? You had sensed that things weren’t as they had been, although he was saying that everything was fine?
Then came the argument. I sense that he might have done something to provoke it? You have been very honest about your feelings. He is now saying that he wants to remain friends? I am sorry, but I sense that he might have been hiding something all along. Perhaps he is otherwise involved and is now afraid of being discovered?
It might be best if you allow him to make the next move. You deserve someone who you can count on. I am truly sorry that you are hurting, but it is better to learn of any potential problems early on in the relationship.
Please keep in touch to let us know how you are doing–
Take care,
🙂