I get a psychic sense it’s best at this point to get your focus off of the issues, and get it on what you can do to build a stronger connection. More laughter together, fun stuff, affection. I’m sensing you like to work through the issues, which is good sometimes, but it can create unnecessary heaviness at other times. Beyond that, I suggest putting your energy inward, into improving yourself. Learn how to get better control over your emotions, as this is what will likely determine the outcome of this relationship. There is training for this here, on this site, if you get stuck.