MOve on or Stay?


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    I met this guy. I just would like to know if i should continue with this relationship, or run fast!
    And am I too distracted at this point

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    First, do you like this guy? Is he nice? Does he treat you well? If you answer “yes” to these questions, then only you can decide if you want to continue with the relationship.

    It is important to remember that no one person can fulfill all of your needs. If he is lacking in one certain quality, he might more than make up for it in other areas. Is it possible that you really don’t know what you want at this point?

    Just try not to hurt him. If you do like him, then give this some time. If you really don’t feel that connection, then it would be best to cool things before you get too involved. If you need to do this, try to approach the subject with as much compassion as possible.

    Take care,
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    Yes, I really like him he gives me so much attention. But I also know that being with him would be a big step in my life..
    I just wanna know if I should take that big step? 🙄

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    It sounds like you have found a really great guy! It might not seem like such a big step if you just take things slowly. This has the potential to be a very good relationship. So really, what do you have to lose by giving it a try?

    There is nothing wrong with telling him that you want to take things slowly. If you feel that things are moving too fast, then just have a serious talk with him. It is important that both of you feel comfortable with where the relationship is going–

    Take care,
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    everything is going well with us. we are very compatible, we like the same things. But when this ends, if it ends, I want it to be a smooth ending. Could we still be friends?

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    Why do you think this relationship will end? It seems like you have good thing going. If it turns out that you both find yourselves going in different directions, then would be the time to ask him if you can still be friends.

    If you feel that you aren’t ready for a serious commitment at this time, you can ask to take things slow–

    Take care!
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    Well I know I can committ. I just don’t wanna be heartbroken

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    You might not be heartbroken! Sounds like you have a good thing going with this guy!
    🙂

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    we’re not talking as much anymore, I wonder if he’s loosing intrest, or maybe im over reacting

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    It might be that you are just getting to know each other better– As long as you enjoy being together and everything seems to be going well, there is no cause to worry. You would sense if there was something not right–

    Just enjoy your time together!

    Take care!
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    Great! I’ll take that advice full heartedly, thanks 🙂

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    😐 He just left without reason. I asked him if something was wrong and he just said no. I said bye and that was it.. 😕

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    Did either of you attempt to discuss this? I really do think that you will hear from him again, maybe some months from now.

    I sense that you really aren’t ready to make a commitment right now. Just take the time to do the things that you enjoy and be happy!

    Take care!
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    maybe he’s not ready he left me! I wanted to be with him maybe he found someone else

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    Some guys are just afraid of commitments, even when the girls aren’t even asking for one. These guys start to feel that they are getting too involved and they back off. Does this fit the pattern?

    It seems that he really likes you, but just got cold feet? I sense that you will hear from him again, but you need to go on about your life and not wait for it to happen.

    Take care!
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