Hi,
You have had a sort of complicated relationship with him.you and him thought you steered away from problems ,then realised that things were not moving for better.
The cards I drew ,referred to dysfunctional life of one of yous,would you understand this?
He thins you achieved the impossible,on the other hand although there is deep love towards you,things are not the same anymore for him,he has left the scene already.
You asked about the other woman,I think he met her by chance,as she took care of him or something.