Before I even knew the man I’m currently involved with’s name I knew this wasn’t just your average encounter…the second I laid eyes on him electricity shot thru every fiber of my being & completely took my breath away…in the yr we’ve been involved we’ve discovered our lives have been insanely similar so we have alot of the same opinions & outlook about most things…we have a good time together no matter what we’re doing & the sex is simply beyond amazing…he’s a wonderful person, very much an old-school gentleman, respectful & respectable, has a good job, the works…the only issue I’ve found so far is because of what he’s been thru in the past his fear of allowing himself to get close to me seems to overwhelm him & he pulls away…because I went thru the same kind of horrible marriage & ugly divorce I understand his fears…he’s told me he loves me & I don’t doubt that he does but it’s frustrating…I’m in serious need of some insight on this situation & would appreciate any anyone has to offer