Whether or not your marriage will last is not something which is cut into stone. Much of what will happen in the future will be your responsibility. In a relationship, some people are arrogant and pushy. With you, i get a sense you hold your emotions inside and do not express these with your husband. It really feels like there is a major lack of communication. I did a sense there are many emotional needs you have which are not being met.
I don’t get a sense your husband is helping with this as my intuitive vibe about him, is that he is a bit on the dominant and stubborn side. But there are ways to overcome these things
instead of wondering if your marriage will last, i would look at what you have to do to make it work. Of course, you need to have the desire to make it work before you put any work into it, otherwise you are just wasting your time.