Just to add to kathy’s, i usually ask myself the same question: how will i know who she is, but the truth is, you’ll know. The process is different for everyone, but you must learn to let go of what you think you know and simply be sincere and open. And most of all, keep a positive mind, it is amazing what the mind can block us from, because we re-enforce any negative thoughts we have and this whether we know it or not, dulls our world, shrinks it, but why not be positive, and get more results, twice fold and positive in that aspect. You will find someone, but make sure you don’t rush it, or jump in too quickly. 🙂