by Candice Kennedy » Thu Dec 03, 2009 1:31 am
I do see a future but the challenges I see are as follows. Once the "honeymoon" stage of the relationship ends, it will be very abrupt and you will find him to be very practical, almost cold. You may sometimes doubt his feelings once this has taken place. He is looking for someone permanent, though he may be doing some shopping, he sees you right now as good long term prospect. You two have a very good chance but keep your feet on the ground and take your time before deciding on anything exclusive or long term. I'm not saying he will be unfaithful but his biggest challenge will be loyalty. When I say loyalty, I'm not necessarily referring to fidelity with other potential lovers. Loyalty can mean if he's upset with you, he will talk openly to friends or family about disagreements. You will have very little privacy. If he thinks you are in the wrong, he will not always stick up for you. It doesn't mean he won't stand by you.
Your challenges aside from him are your trust issues and you are slow to forgive and even slower to forget. Read books and and study specific meditations to rid yourself of that burden. People that love you are human and they will let you down from time to time in big and small ways. To properly cultivate those relationships, you must incorporate forgiveness into your character, This advice applies to all people but you will find this especially challenging.
You will have a lot of fun and passion together but just have a thick skin. This is what I get when i focus in on him and you two as a couple. If you have any additional questions, please submit.
