Something new

[LSFerreira]

Hi all,

I was wondering if anyone has some insight to share with me about my future. I have many plans, but cannot seem to act upon any of them and when I do, nothing seems to work out. My husband and I feel that we are stuck in a major rut This is causing much stress (luckily not between us) and I can really use some direction. Is there something that can get me moving, perhaps an option that I'm not seeing? My husband and I very much want to move somewhere different and start fresh. We feel that the only way to move forward is to move out of the town we are currently living in. It does not have much to offer, especially jobs, I am currently unemployed.

Also, we have been trying to get pregnant for 3 years and I was wondering if it's going to happen for us soon or should we just abandon the baby hopes and move on with our lives. My husband seems to have given up on the idea of a baby and I'm about to give up too. The emotional toll is now too much for my psyche to handle. Please help.

[LSFerreira]

Just found out, a couple of hours after first posting that I'm pregnant. Wow

[Kathy N]

Congratulations!

This child will be the focus of your decisions as to where you would like to live. What are your husband's best options for employment? Perhaps he could apply for work in an area where you would like to live? It would be best if he keeps his present job until he is able to secure another job offer.

It seems that this child will be a wonderful source of motivation!

Best wishes,

[LSFerreira]

Thanks for your well wishes and insight, Kathy. I think this baby will definitely be a great source of not only motivation, but inspiration as well. We are beyond thrilled

[LSFerreira]

Hi embobeBreepsy, not sure why you posted that as a reply to my question...hmmmm...

[Kathy N]

Lisa,

I am truly happy for you! Please keep in touch to let us know how you are dong.

I am just trying to work around all this spam in the forums!

Take care,

[LSFerreira]

Thanks Kathy,

Well, it has been an interesting two weeks. I've been mildly spotting off and on, but the baby seems to be hanging in there. I'm very hopeful and optimistic about the little bean. All I can do is take care of myself and get plenty of bed rest, which is what I've been doing. I had a dream this morning about a dear friend who passed away last summer, in it, he told me that the baby would be fine and I believe him

Hope you are well.

[Kathy N]

Lisa,

Please follow all of your doctor's suggestions. You will definitely want to take very good care of yourself to ensure that this little bundle of joy will arrive safely.

Best wishes,