my relationships

LindaEberhardt · by **LindaEberhardt** » Sun Jul 17, 2011 7:05 pm

Will my finances het any better soon, Im looking for a job, and am suppose to be getting help

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Frank_In · by **Frank_In** » Sun Jul 17, 2011 7:36 pm

LindaEberhardt: I do sense that J does feel a connection with you. Although, I do also get a psychic sense that there is a connection with someone else in his life, a relationship from the past, maybe a blonde nurse. He may have chosen to be with you because he desired intimacy, but also wanted something that wasn't too deep or heavy, too much commitment or responsibility. There may be resistance from him as you try to move in and make the relationship more substantial. I'm not saying it's hopeless, just saying this could be a challenge. I keep getting this small business sense about him, and this could also be consuming at times. Maybe give it some time, move forward, see what happens, and if it doesn't work out, find someone who has the same goals as you. If it does work out, enjoy it. Also, try to to pay attention to the reason why your last two marriages didn't work and what role you played in this. If there is a pattern that you are participating in, take steps to get that fixed so it doesn't keep happening. These are the first insights I'm getting about your questions. I can share more, but let me know what you think and what you would like me to focus on: be more specific.

LindaEberhardt · by **LindaEberhardt** » Mon Jul 18, 2011 10:46 am

right on

LindaEberhardt · by **LindaEberhardt** » Mon Jul 18, 2011 10:51 am

I thought there was someone from the past but he said there was noone right nw...if not j, will i meet someone else? will I keep my home, I am looing for work and may be getting my inheritance early from my parents, will this happen? Im not so consumed by J anymore, which is good...

LindaEberhardt · by **LindaEberhardt** » Mon Jul 18, 2011 11:04 am

but j is purchasing a home, will I be part of this, will I move in with him?

LindaEberhardt · by **LindaEberhardt** » Mon Jul 18, 2011 11:05 am

whoever u are, u are good!

LindaEberhardt · by **LindaEberhardt** » Mon Jul 18, 2011 12:49 pm

this is my whole story, my husband lost his job , was unemployed for over 2 years, in that time, he became angry and took all his stress out on my son, I fell out of love with him, I dont think I ever did love him, the way I should have, I lost my job in january, I have been helping my parewnts get into assisted living and clean out there home, will thsi all work out? will I be ok financially? I love J, but if he does not want this relationship then we both have to move on, DOES HE?

Frank_In · by **Frank_In** » Mon Jul 18, 2011 6:47 pm

LindaEberhardt » Instead of several, please ask one specific question, one that is the most important to you, and I will see if I can help.

LindaEberhardt · by **LindaEberhardt** » Mon Jul 18, 2011 7:55 pm

will i move in with j

Frank_In · by **Frank_In** » Mon Jul 18, 2011 8:10 pm

LindaEberhardt:

Frank_In wrote:He may have chosen to be with you because he desired intimacy, but also wanted something that wasn't too deep or heavy, too much commitment or responsibility. There may be resistance from him as you try to move in and make the relationship more substantial. I'm not saying it's hopeless, just saying this could be a challenge.

So in other words, it could happen, but as of now, the probabilities don't feel high to me. Maybe instead of focusing on what will happen, try to get your mind on what you can do to give it a better chance of happening. Ask him, see how he feels about a long-term, committed relationship. Find out if you see eye-to-eye.