reading request on my love life

[Kathy N]

Hope,

Finding someone who you are compatible with isn't something that you can put into a set time frame. It will most likely happen when you least likely expect it. Even if you feel like you have given up it can still happen! I still have a good feeling about what I have already suggested--can you find some time to get involved with some volunteer work? If only for a couple of hours a week in an area that truly interests you. There is a possibility that you will meet someone through this effort.

The Holidays are a good time to volunteer! Please consider this and keep in touch to let us know what is happening!
Take care--

[hope]

Hope,

Finding someone who you are compatible with isn't something that you can put into a set time frame. It will most likely happen when you least likely expect it. Even if you feel like you have given up it can still happen! I still have a good feeling about what I have already suggested--can you find some time to get involved with some volunteer work? If only for a couple of hours a week in an area that truly interests you. There is a possibility that you will meet someone through this effort.

The Holidays are a good time to volunteer! Please consider this and keep in touch to let us know what is happening!
Take care--

Sincerely, there's nothing around me where I could do some volunteer work . During the week , I work and during the week-end I'm pretty busy too . This search for love is coming to a dead end and I'll likely be giving up as it's too much to bear now .

[Kathy N]

Hope,
It might not be so much of actually being in a "volunteer" position. I realize that you are busy with work during the week and are also busy on weekends. During the times that you are involved with activities is there a window of time which you can help someone? That means just going out of your way to be kind to someone or help them. Something that you don't actually have to do but will give you pleasure to know that you have performed an act of kindness for someone, or some thing.

Though this effort I have a very good feeling that you will meet someone new.

[hope]

Hope,
It might not be so much of actually being in a "volunteer" position. I realize that you are busy with work during the week and are also busy on weekends. During the times that you are involved with activities is there a window of time which you can help someone? That means just going out of your way to be kind to someone or help them. Something that you don't actually have to do but will give you pleasure to know that you have performed an act of kindness for someone, or some thing.

Though this effort I have a very good feeling that you will meet someone new.

Thanks Kathy , I never get such opportunities at work but will keep my open just in case .

[hope]

Hope,
It might not be so much of actually being in a "volunteer" position. I realize that you are busy with work during the week and are also busy on weekends. During the times that you are involved with activities is there a window of time which you can help someone? That means just going out of your way to be kind to someone or help them. Something that you don't actually have to do but will give you pleasure to know that you have performed an act of kindness for someone, or some thing.

Though this effort I have a very good feeling that you will meet someone new.

Thanks Kathy , I never get such opportunities at work but will keep my open just in case .

Hi Kathy , today as I was in the bus a handicapped man entered and nobody offered him their seat except from me . I didn't do this selfishly to meet someone anyway . I just did this out of duty and ovbiously I didn't meet anyone in that bus .lol

[Kathy N]

Hope,
That was a very nice thing that you did to offer your bus seat to the handicapped man. I know you feel good within yourself that you were able to help the man. It might take several acts of kindness and going out of your way to help others before you meet someone special. Your efforts will not go unnoticed--just continue to look for these opportunities. Whether it be doing something to help your friends, or others who you don't know well. You will feel pleasure in making someone's life a little bit easier or brighter. This pleasure will shine through in your personality!

[hope]

Hi Kathy N , I'm not sure if that guy is a love interest or anything . I'm just curious and would love to know if you pick up anything on him please ? He must be more than 5' 6" and is fair. He works in the building opposite to my work place . I first saw him last year in August I think. Our eyes locked for a few seconds. He even smiled at me but I gave him the "why are you staring at me ?" look lol . I had forgotten about him though. Today I was in the car and saw him standing by the road and talking to someone else . I remembered him and I think he looks kind of cute. I usually avoid looking at the guys standing in the road on my way back/to work even if they stare at me . I pretend not to notice. I'm a little sad I didn't smile back at him last year and that our paths didn't cross again ..Will I see him again please ? Thanks.

[Kathy N]

Hope,

Although the future is not set in stone, I feel that there is better than an 80% chance that you will see this guy again! You already know that he works in a building adjacent to where you work. Although the outcome is not clear, I sense that there was something about you that he liked when your paths first crossed last summer. There is no harm in saying hello to someone that you recognize. It may take a few times of exchanging greetings before a conversation might take place.

He might likely be in the same place at the same time during the work day. If you can just find this out without being obvious, then you can ensure that you will see him again. Just don't put too much hope into a possible friendship until you know more about his situation.

Please keep in touch and let us know how this materializes. May this be a very good year for you!

[hope]

Hope,

Although the future is not set in stone, I feel that there is better than an 80% chance that you will see this guy again! You already know that he works in a building adjacent to where you work. Although the outcome is not clear, I sense that there was something about you that he liked when your paths first crossed last summer. There is no harm in saying hello to someone that you recognize. It may take a few times of exchanging greetings before a conversation might take place.

He might likely be in the same place at the same time during the work day. If you can just find this out without being obvious, then you can ensure that you will see him again. Just don't put too much hope into a possible friendship until you know more about his situation.

Please keep in touch and let us know how this materializes. May this be a very good year for you!

Thanks Kathy N , I don't have much hope about this . If he liked me back then he would have made a move or something.If I happen to make eye contact with him again and he smiles at me , this time maybe I will too . My problem is when I walk next to where he usually hangs out on my way or back to work, most of the time there has to be a guy standing there. Whoever they are , they stare at me . I avoid eye contact as it's weird and awkward for me to do that . I'm just shy. Wished I had the guts. I will let you know if anything happens when I go back to work next week !
Thanks a lot & Happy New Year !

[Kathy N]

Hope,
I sense that this mystery man noticed you last summer. There was something that he liked about you, but he knew nothing about your situation, i.e.; if you are married, in a relationship, etc. Guys can be shy too! If you already know approximately when he will be outside the building each day there is no harm in looking for him again. If someone looks at you, hold your head high and smile. It is perfectly acceptable to say hello to professional business associates while they are conversing outside of the building.

I have a good feeling about this situation. If things do not materialize with your mystery man, then perhaps it will be with another gentleman you may meet in this environment. Just don't be afraid to strike up a conversation with someone in this manner. Most guys will want to get to know a little bit about a lady before they ask her out.

I think this is a worthwhile project for the New Year!

Take care!