If you want to use your abilities to share psychic insights with others in this forum, please read the following information carefully. Any inappropriate post will be deleted immediately by one of our forum moderators and you could risk a permanent ban from our site.
It’s written in an outline form and some of it may be a bit confusing. You are welcome to ask any questions you have about this info here in the forum. Here you go:
NO SELF PROMOTION
If you are professional psychic, please do not promote yourself in this section of our forums (links, business name, etc). This is not why our visitors are here and we want all of our participants to feel comfortable.
ETHICAL STANDARDS
• Honesty – offer the information you receive honestly, without editing or judging
• Confidentiality – respecting the client’s right to privacy with any information given or received
• Non-judgmental - not judging your client or their situation or choices, but offering unconditional love, guidance and assistance
• Empathy – Put yourself in the client’s shoes - try to understand their situation and how it might feel to be in their circumstances
• Never give a definite prediction on disasters, health, legal issues, death, divorce, or any forms of witchcraft
• Explain that nothing is written in stone
• Always give a positive reading
• Stay away from get rich issues although it is appropriate to consult on finances
• Don’t bring up anything that person absolutely wouldn't want to hear, couldn't handle
BE POSITIVE
• Always present insights in a positive light, life-affirming
• Turn every negative into a positive
• Suggest resources for self-empowerment or ways for them to gain their own power and life back
• Clients should focus on themselves and learn, or re-learn, to take an active role in improving their own lives.
• See yourself as a psychic Tony Robbins, Wayne Dyer, Norman Vincent Peale or Dear Abby
• Let out your sense of humor (you have one, right)
OPPONENT/ON THEIR SIDE
• Role as a helper, not a fatalist who tells the client that nothing can be done to change their life
• Encourage client to take responsibility for own life (physical, mental, emotional, spiritual,) - usually do so indirectly and very carefully (ask a lot of questions)
PAST LIVES
• Unless a person asks about past lives or reincarnation, do not go into it
• Perhaps, you can, in some situations, refer to the fact that maybe there was a past life connection
• See what they say and then proceed with your insights in reference to this life
• Try to keep the focus on the present and what needs to be done
RELATIONSHIPS
• Never say a relationship won't work out - you don't know this to be so
• Use words like "possibly" and "probably" and tell them to give the person space and time
• Suggest that they work on themselves and get her own power back
THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE
• Emphasize that everyone has free will and therefore nothing is definite
• There is always hope and we can change our own destiny
• Stress that the insights provided can change through prayer, positive thinking, meditation, creative visualization and divine intervention
• Never minimize their pain or grief, but encourage them to take positive steps
• Regardless of what you suggest, make them understand that the final responsibility is theirs
• If you feel the client is suicidal or may pose a danger to someone else, use your psychic judgment to gently direct him or her to the appropriate agency for help
• Never say never, but guide them into seeing the situation more clearly for themselves
• Emphasize the importance of relying on the guidance and the love of God, universe, etc, and that everything is really divinely designed for their highest good if they look for it
CHEATING
• If someone insists on knowing whether their mate is cheating on them, handle this issue very cautiously
• This can be a dangerous area, especially if your client seeks revenge through violence
Stay away from answering these types of questions in these forums - recommend a professional
HEALTH ISSUES
• Walk lightly with serious diagnosis
• Qualify your statements - leave the medical diagnosis to medical professionals
• Morally and legally, you can only recommend the person consult their physician if you sense a health problem
• Suggest they see a medical doctor and a preventive holistic medical doctor as well for better nutrition, herbs, acupuncture, chiropractor, massage, etc."
SUICIDE & DEATH
• We all want to do all we can to help a client who wants to end their suffering
• Death is a very delicate area that needs to be handled carefully and cautiously
• Never say that you see a definite death at a specific time
• We all die and you can psychically sense if there is illness or health warnings
• Always suggest medical attention or check-ups on whatever you psychically see
• For those who have lost a loved one, remind them that they are always with us but are in another dimension and can communicate in a variety of forms such as dreams
Important: Don't let you ego get in the way. If you feel that you are getting over your head, or that a participant really needs professional help, consider referring this person to our Psychic Counseling Service http://www.lifeleap.org/psychic or another appropriate professional (doctor, attorney, suicide hotline, private investigator, etc)
