In need of a little bit of guidance

[kitana57]

I finally found a job (although I am hoping for things to pick up soon) I am pretty much content with what I do, but however things for a little while have been kind of rocky. What I was wondering is will this rocky situation improve soon?





Thank you

[Kathy N]

It is really good that you found a job and that you are content with what you are doing. Right now it is very important to stay with that job, even though it is not what you want to be doing forever. Having this job is helping you to gain the self confidence that you deserve. This same self confidence will help you through other situations, even though the problems might not be work related.

You are a strong person and you will get through these trying times. You have more ability to turn things around than you realize. Just keep the faith and know that you have the ability to make decisions for your future.

Best wishes,

[Kathy N]

If you could please post this question under a new topic which you create, it will be easier for others to locate and offer suggestions.

You seem to know what you need to do to plan for your future--

Best wishes,

[kitana57]

Dearest Kathy,
Thank you for keeping me grounded and my head level:) No I have no plans of leaving this job anytime soon because I do see it as a gateway to hopefully new opportunities in the future. This job is in a way what I like to do best is which is helping people, sure it is great to finally have some kind of income, but I am hopeful that for awhile I get to keep it. Thank you again:)

[Kathy N]

I sense that you are doing well with your new job. Your employer surely notices your willingness to help others, as well as your professional ethic.

It also seems that this job is helping to build your self-confidence. It may take a bit longer before you really feel that you are getting ahead financially, but that time will come. Now that you are receiving income, it should be steady. You will get back on your feet!

Best wishes!

[kitana57]

Hi Kathy,
I surely hope so I like the job very much and I wish to be there awhile, but I get the impression some how I am not liked much at all for whatever reason (especially one person in particular). I feel like I get bullied because I am new and I ask a few questions every now and again, but one thing is certain I am willing to work and I do just that. I am hoping to advance from this point in the future, but in the meantime I feel I am learning alot and gaining some experience at the same time.

Thank you so much for the encouragement and the guidance

[Kathy N]

The person who is giving you the opposition most likely sees you as a threat. You are doing your very best and you want to learn to do your job properly. It is only natural that you will have questions for awhile. It really takes about a year for someone to become completely familiar with all job responsibilities.

If you can just work around this person and try to limit your contact, you will feel more in control. You have a great attitude and you are not going to let this person stand in your way!

Best wishes,

[kitana57]

Hi Kathy,
Yeah you are 100% correct and I always appreciate your guidance thank you so much. I am learning alot and I think I am finally finding my niche. I just have to learn to be a little less thin skinned and to keep my eye on my ultimate goal (which is to work my way up from here:). I will stick with this awhile because despite the rough start I am really getting to like it, but it is very true what they say our attitude does indeed tend to determine our altitude so I will try to stay as focused on the positive end of things as long as it is humanly possible.
Thanks again:)

[Kathy N]

With your good attitude you can't help but be successful!

Best wishes to you!