"The wolves will always attack the weak part of the herd." I am no way blaming you for this man's behavior, or the behavior of the people in your previous relationships. But psychically, I am sensing a pattern here, something occurring deep within you. When I focus on the rest of your life, the life outside of the relationship area, I sense a lot of imbalance. What about your support group, family, your
own intuition, your professional life, your spiritually, your self esteem, your life passions, having a fun hobby you enjoy, your connection with a higher power, your goals, your connection with nature, and what about physical exercise? As I was psychically scanning through all of these area in your life, I kept seeing many big inadequacies. When we are in weakened state from the "inside out," we tend to attract people and situations which reflect this. My
psychic sense is that the last man treated you much in the way he did because he felt like he could get away with it, because you are "that type of person." What about instead of giving up on men (btw, there are some great one's out there), instead of sitting in depression, instead of fixating on why people are treating you in these ways, what about spending some time into getting your life balance back, strengthening yourself from the inside out? The more strength you have from the inside out, the better situations (relationships) you will attract into your life. And when you change, people will treat you differently: more respect and less abusively. And when things don't work out, as this will happen sometimes, it won't be so traumatic and depressing. You will bounce back easier and more quickly. Maybe the universe is sending you a signal that something isn't right, maybe there is something that you need to change. You think? What is the common denominator in all the relationship situations you are talking about; well, the common denominator is
you. Take the pain you are experiencing and use it as a motivator to make some changes in your life. Break the pattern! Dale has a great program for getting your life together:
http://www.lifeleap.org/mastery/ and it's very inexpensive. I am no way trying to sell you on anything. It's your business what you do, just do something. Find a good counselor, find a
meditation class locally in your area, a women's group, something. One last thin for now: I kept getting psychic images of you being drawn to work with kids, probably teenagers, in some type of situation where you are helping them. It could something as simple as volunteering at a local shelter or boys and girls club. I go a
psychic sense that this is something that you would enjoy. Sometimes the best thing we can do to heal ourselves is to step in and help some other people. Please let me know your thoughts on what I have discussed and let me know if you have any further questions.
