I was dating this guy for about 2-3 months, and things seemed to be going absolutely awesome and getting quite serious. I'm usually pretty perceptive of people, and I was very careful with it all (due to some painful past experiences when I was a little more niave)-- he seemed very genuine in how much he liked me and cared for me. I really didn't get the vibe that he was after me just for sex either. I don't want to give unecessary excessive details, but there seemed to be a lot of serendpity in our situation, and by coincidence our lives have crossed paths many times for like 5 years until we finally met. We've never seemed to have any negativity or much for conflict in our relationship. Last time we saw eachother was amazing too (he didn't see me for a few days and was super eager to again-- we just cuddled and talked, he expressed how much he missed me). Then we didn't end up seeing eachother for like a week, and only talked over facebook messages, where I feel like some miscommunication and unintentional drama happened. I'm also a little worried that sometimes my own negativity, fears, and bad perceptions sometimes have an effect on my current relationships. We dated and broke up once before due to us both being insecure. We ended up breaking up and both agreed on some distance, although neither one of us said why or discussed anything.
This was about a month ago, and we have been recently chatting and joking around and stuff again, and he said he would try and make it to this party that is at my place this weekend. I think that maybe the distance was for the best, but now I really miss him and stuff. I'm feeling kind of heartbroken and disappointed about this, and it doesn't really make a whole lot of sense to me. What are the chances that he still likes me or that we will reunite, and if not with him then what should I be looking for or doing to find the right guy?
