I had abruptly lost my fiancé, who I loved very much with no explanation. He changed his mind and pulled the rug out from under me and wouldn’t tell me why and would barely talk to me. I was so heartbroken I was physically sick- unable to eat, sleep and function. I thought I would just die-of a broken heart or exhaustion! I even lost my job because I couldn’t function. Why? I needed help. I need answers!
Here is list of who I consulted what they told me.
1. Psychiatrist-at $250 an hour, she needed to see me for a few months twice a week to decide what medication I needed and scolded me for crying. Okay. I moved on to an LSW (licensed Social Worker) At $165 per hour needed to see me for about a year to decide what my issues were. Thanks but l will become enlightened later. I want guidance on this situation now.
Reputable Medical Doctor. Though I told him of my drinking alone at home since this instance, he prescribed Xanax, sleeping pills, and anti-depressants. I felt and acted even crazier. Thanks Doc.
Then the input from dime store sociology experts we often refer to as family and friends: “It’s another woman.” “He’s gay” ”It’s your fault” “You need to make him jealous.” “Here’s how you can get even…” “Find another man as soon as you can and you’ll forget about him.”
“Oh grow up!” I thought.
A juvenile phone psychic told me to make him jealous after keeping me on the phone with nonsense just to rack up the money. I learned later from a friend who is a real psychic that she was fired from a hotline for not racking up the minutes and the money. She also added that hotlines employ many people with no ability (out of work disc jockeys, ex phone sex workers, etc.) except to keep you on the phone! Nice!
Finally I got the help and ANSWERS I needed from a real psychic. A professional psychic. She came highly recommended from a friend. “What the heck” I thought. “It surely couldn’t hurt much after what I’ve been through.”
This wise and compassionate psychic took just literally a few seconds to diagnose exactly what was wrong. She focused like a laser right to the root of the problem. The answers to the why my life had just fallen apart.
“It’s his mother.”
“No way.” I thought. But then it dawned on me I hadn’t even told her anything about him. Not even that he had mother with a very prominent presence in his life.
But like the end of the movie “Sixth Sense” all the pieces of the puzzle were revealed. Obvious occurrences I had already seen but never noticed. Petty Arguments she would start, guilt provoking comments, untimely phone calls, creepy comments and phone calls made to me, last minute made up crisis, etc.
It all started when we got engaged.
He was 40 and had never left home. His former girlfriend of 8 years had dumped him because he wouldn’t take their relationship to the next level. We had bent over backwards to include his Mother in all our plans, including vacations, lunches and dinners at restaurants. We were about to sign a lease on a luxury 2 story penthouse-one that she had always wanted so we could all be together. She wanted the penthouse but not with me in it.
When we started breaking up, she called me and said she was sorry and that I was too good for him; that he was a “confirmed bachelor” but please don’t tell him she called.
It just never occurred to me that a Mother who seemed to have so much class could be so selfish and not want her son to be happy. It seemed too sick to be true. But it was.
Thank heavens I saw the psychic. I thought it was me! It was something I had no control over and suddenly I was cured physically. After three months of not eating, sleeping and heavy drinking, I felt a thousand times better. Relieved. I had an appetite, I could sleep and I started really getting over the heartbreak. That took a few moths but I was headed in the right direction.
No doctors – no social worker – no psychiatrist. They were unable and on some level, unwilling to help me. I thought I would share this because I think services such as yours are often better at giving people what they need. Just my 2 cents.
About The Author: Dale Sellers is a professional psychic, teacher, and founder of LifeLeap Institute. Explore this blog and signup free to the LifeLeap Community: Get powerful tips about psychic awareness, personal growth, discounts for services, free psychic insights from our community member, updates about projects and more. You can create an membership using the form to the upper right. Also make sure to subscribe to this blog by email or by RSS feed for updates.
Make sure to connect with Dale on Facebook, Google +, LinkedIn and Twitter.
Use the social media links below to stay in touch and keep informed about exclusive discounts, offers, giveaways, and more!
Facebook
Twitter
Linkedin 
+Dale Sellers
Also, make sure to see Dale's most popular services:
Psychic Counseling - Get past any suffering, confusion, and stagnation. Get the answers, the direction, and the understanding you deserve in your life - Dale's psychic accuracy is guaranteed. In-person and phone sessions are available (internationally).
Life Mastery Program - Develop your psychic & healing abilities, break destructive patterns in your life, get control over your emotions & learn to spiritually manifest what you want with this complete training approach to metaphysics & personal growth.
loading...
No related posts.
5 comments
Jill says:
March 9, 2010 at 2:28 pm (UTC -4 )
Sounds all too familiar! Although I think there are times when seeing a doctor is the right thing to do, sometimes it can be scary. I recently had marital problems, and when I spoke with a psychologist, she recommended I get divorced. She talked like she knew what was best for me. I have a good friend that’s a psychic that told me what to do to improve my relationship, and that she saw us being together was hopeful. Imagine that! I’m still having challenges, but things are improving. Wow!
Ally says:
March 9, 2010 at 2:32 pm (UTC -4 )
@Jill,
A doctor/therapist should NEVER recommend divorce. It’s unethical!
Ally says:
March 9, 2010 at 2:31 pm (UTC -4 )
Oh my gosh! Almost the very same thing happened to me except I didn’t go to a psychiatrist/social worker or therapist. I went to psychics (obviously not good ones) who ended up swindling me out of almost $10,000 and my 401k (as I had to drain it to survive). I was desperate and messed up at that point in my life. The was one person who did not drain me, also a psychic, but so many of them convinced me that his mom put a spell on me, and all kinds of crazy things. I almost lost my job because I was so depressed and I knocked myself deep into credit card debt. It nearly ruined my life and I’m still working to get myself out of that hole. I have former co-workers that think I’m a total ditz and who knows what else. I admit, I was messed up. I was engaged like this woman and one day it just ended. It was a nightmare. If I were to repeat that experience as hellish as it was, the only thing I would have done differently was keep some of the personal stuff to myself, not let my work go, and find trusted psychics instead of people who are just out to get my money. I wish I had gone to Dale!
Dale Sellers says:
March 9, 2010 at 2:46 pm (UTC -4 )
@Ally, I hear of victims getting scammed like this all too often. Some people, claiming to be psychics, will take advantage of vulnerable people. To combat this and help educate potential victims, I created a free guide: Avoid Psychic Scams
Some initial flags to watch out for are claims of curses, love spell offers, and bullying type behavior from the “so-call psychic.” I hope anyone experiencing this type of abuse will read the guide. It should help anyone to distinguish the difference between a charlatan and a legitimate, ethical psychic. Thanks for sharing your experience.
Jennifer says:
March 9, 2010 at 3:11 pm (UTC -4 )
Great story because there are so many inefficient (medical) professionals out there that I have come to realize there must be a good number of people out there misdiagnosed and actually are on medications that are doing them more harm.
I should really go to a psychic too about the issues I have and will go to you at some point. I did go to a psychic out of curiosity in my early 30′s and the first thing he said is that he noticed major emotional blockage in my chest. I’ve never forgotten that statement because he was basically right, but no one has ever been able to verbalize that to me.